The Cost Of Caring
We’ve spent three episodes talking about your patients’ nervous systems. This one is about yours.
If you’re showing up for complex, trauma-affected patients with skill and sensitivity — you’re absorbing something in the process. That’s not a weakness. That’s the cost of caring. And it puts you directly at risk for compassion fatigue.
In this final episode of our four-part series on trauma and the nervous system, we turn the lens around and talk about what this work actually costs us as therapists — and more importantly, what we can do about it.
In this episode we cover:
- The two distinct components of compassion fatigue — secondary traumatic stress and burnout — and why understanding the difference matters
- The Job Demands-Resources Model and how it explains why so many therapists feel depleted
- How your own HPA axis responds to chronic stress in the same way your patients’ does
- The three core psychological needs that research shows protect against burnout: autonomy, competence, and relatedness
- Why protecting yourself isn’t selfish — it’s clinical
The work you do matters. And it requires a version of you that has something left to give.
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Fundamentals of Therapeutic Movement for Trauma-Competent Therapists is now open — everything we’ve covered across these four episodes, plus the practical tools to put it into action in your treatment room.
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