Hi new patient, I’m the expert. I am a physical therapist (no DPT, sorry) with 35 years of experience. Those years include a ton of continuing education and independent research. They include tens of thousands of patient-contact hours. I’ve been an educator in the continuing education field since 1995. With all that experience, I should know a thing or two. Right?
I do know a lot and have seen various models of intervention work quite nicely for a range of disorders, so much so that I feel I can reach for a certain tool (metaphor) when you come into my office with a certain complaint. But a wise person once told me that if you already know what you would do or what you would use with a certain patient and their problem before they come into your office, then you don’t know what you are doing. You are complex. I’m complex. Put the two together, and you have double complexity.
While I know a lot, there is one thing missing when you walk in my clinic door. I don’t know what you are feeling, fearing, expecting, and hoping for until I ask. If you don’t tell me, assuming I know what to do, we are missing a unique opportunity to help you in ways I alone cannot accomplish.
I could wow you with a bunch of research citations that speak to just why you need to speak up, but you are looking to feel better, not to be bored with what seems like my ego telling you about a cool study or two. I know that you expect me to determine what is wrong with you and to know what to do to help you. However, while I might have some ideas, I need your help. I need your help to determine if what we do, be it manual therapy or movement-based work, feels useful. Not from a theoretical perspective, but to your body and brain. For instance, does it feel like the stretch we are doing is replicating or calming your symptoms? Does it feel like I am doing something that might be helpful? If not, does it feel like what we are doing right now could be harmful? If so, I’m going to stop immediately. I’m not going to try to talk you into biting on a stick while I dig your pain out of your body with my manual therapy or tell you the No Pain, No Gain crappy story many like to believe.
What’s that? You say that you like deep pressures? You think it needs to hurt to help? OK, then let’s negotiate this whole pressure thing. I’m not going to hurt myself just to help you, nor am I going to do so much pressure or use so much resistance with movement/exercise to put you at risk, but maybe we can meet in the middle. How’s that? Do you feel like I’m having a conversation with your symptoms? Is the pressure enough? What, you’d like a little less? No problem, is this better?
So right now, with the exercise or stretch that we are doing, do you feel the connection to your problem? Yes? OK, does it feel like this exercise/stretch might be helpful for that? Great, then let’s spend some time with it.
This is what I meant about sharing decision-making. I told you that how I treat patients is different, as if you left it up to me, I may have never done something that you found perfectly useful and potentially helpful. What’s that? Why don’t other clinicians ask you to take part? Dunno, though I think that they should.